Taking on a new Role

Let me introduce to you the foot in the door heel which is a must have for any dame who doesn't want to come up empty handed with her change.

Through its practicality this heel helped me get my own "foot in the door" with the brand new label of stepmother being plastered on my forehead (which I wear with pride).

In the beginning of my relationship with my <insert title here> I was more like the fun aunt to my two adorable yet mischievous stepchildren. That all changed when we moved from California to Arizona to be part of their daily lives and shape their futures.

Prior to the move I had this fairytale image of my life in Arizona with my new pre-fabricated family. It even had us engaging in monthly dinners with their birth mother all while exchanging humorous laughs together. Boy did I have another thing coming. Two months later all "hellos" and "how you doings" with their BM were ended. Talk about perfect timing as my transition into a stay at home stepmom role began flourishing and I had no one to turn to for advise (thus the blog). My change has now become robotic to my biweekly life of waking up at 6:30am with my 5 year old stepson and 2 year old stepdaughter, cooking just about every two hours for them because they have an appetite like their father, and doing just about every other joy that comes with being a mother. Truth be told I would have to thank my sisters for having kids and teaching me some of the ins and outs with little boys and girls.

Need to get your foot in the door with something? Well you are in lucky because you can get your Fred foot in the door here and did I mention it also comes in black ♥